Cuddle Party
Oct. 1st, 2025 12:26 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Everyone needs contact comfort sometimes. Not everyone has ample opportunities for this in facetime. So here is a chance for a cuddle party in cyberspace. Virtual cuddling can help people feel better.
We have a cuddle room that comes with fort cushions, fort frames, sheets for draping, and a weighted blanket. A nest full of colorful egg pillows sits in one corner. There is a basket of grooming brushes, hairbrushes, and styling combs. A bin holds textured pillows. There is a big basket of craft supplies along with art markers, coloring pages, and blank paper. The kitchen has a popcorn machine. Labels are available to mark dietary needs, recipe ingredients, and level of spiciness. Here is the bathroom, open to everyone. There is a lawn tent and an outdoor hot tub. Bathers should post a sign for nude or clothed activity. Come snuggle up!
We have a cuddle room that comes with fort cushions, fort frames, sheets for draping, and a weighted blanket. A nest full of colorful egg pillows sits in one corner. There is a basket of grooming brushes, hairbrushes, and styling combs. A bin holds textured pillows. There is a big basket of craft supplies along with art markers, coloring pages, and blank paper. The kitchen has a popcorn machine. Labels are available to mark dietary needs, recipe ingredients, and level of spiciness. Here is the bathroom, open to everyone. There is a lawn tent and an outdoor hot tub. Bathers should post a sign for nude or clothed activity. Come snuggle up!
Girl Genius for Wednesday, October 01, 2025
Oct. 1st, 2025 04:00 am![[syndicated profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/feed.png)
The Girl Genius comic for Wednesday, October 01, 2025 has been posted.
New Year's Resolutions Check In
Sep. 30th, 2025 11:19 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
We made it to the end of September! \o/ If you have completed some of your medium-term goals or subgoals, and/or you're still chugging away at your ongoing goals, then pat yourself on the back. You worked hard for that. We have also started autumn. If you're doing seasonal goals, share what you're working on for this fall.
This year I'm trying something new, continuing to track goals at the end of each month. So far it seems to be helping, so that's encouraging. I'm looking at my goal list more often and trying to keep ticking off more of them. The main drawback is that this update becomes more of a chore each month.
These are the previous check in posts:
New Year's Resolutions Check In January 4
New Year's Resolutions Check In January 10
New Year's Resolutions Check In January 17
New Year's Resolutions Check In January 24
New Year's Resolutions Check In January 31
New Year's Resolutions Check In February 28
New Year's Resolutions Check In March 31
New Year's Resolutions Check In April 30
New Year's Resolutions Check In May 31
New Year's Resolutions Check In June 30
New Year's Resolutions Check In July 31
New Year's Resolutions Check In August 31
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This year I'm trying something new, continuing to track goals at the end of each month. So far it seems to be helping, so that's encouraging. I'm looking at my goal list more often and trying to keep ticking off more of them. The main drawback is that this update becomes more of a chore each month.
These are the previous check in posts:
New Year's Resolutions Check In January 4
New Year's Resolutions Check In January 10
New Year's Resolutions Check In January 17
New Year's Resolutions Check In January 24
New Year's Resolutions Check In January 31
New Year's Resolutions Check In February 28
New Year's Resolutions Check In March 31
New Year's Resolutions Check In April 30
New Year's Resolutions Check In May 31
New Year's Resolutions Check In June 30
New Year's Resolutions Check In July 31
New Year's Resolutions Check In August 31
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Poetry Fishbowl on Tuesday, October 7
Sep. 30th, 2025 10:40 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
This is an advance announcement for the Tuesday, October 7, 2025 Poetry Fishbowl. This time the theme will be "Witches and Wizards." I'll be soliciting ideas for witches, wizards, other magic users, mentors, elders, teachers, students, adventurers, explorers, damsels/gentlemen in distress, historians, partners, leaders, dark lords, the Chosen One(s), superheroes, supervillains, teammates, fantasy species, ethicists, activists, queerfolk, other unusual fantasy folk, studying magic, doing magic, enchanting artifacts, breaking curses, breaking rules, exploring new territory, meeting new species, upsetting predictions, twisting tropes, flipping stereotypes, expecting the unexpected, researching, revising theories, parenting, teaching, adventuring, leaving your comfort zone, discovering things, conducting experiments, observation changing experiments, experiments changing paradigms, adapting, improvising, troubleshooting, cleaning up messes, cooperating, taking over in an emergency, saving the day, discovering yourself, studying others, testing boundaries, coming of age, coming out, running away from home, going off the rails, subverting fate, learning what you can (and can't) do, sharing, preparing for the worst, fixing what's broke, upsetting the status quo, changing the world, accomplishing the impossible, recovering from setbacks, returning home, other fantastic activities, witch's huts, wizard's towers, magical schools, castles, ruins, stone circles, dungeons, dragon lairs, Underhill, the forest primeval, underwater, underground, liminal zones, kitchens, campfires, libraries, laboratories, apothecary shops, supervillain lairs, makerspaces, nonhuman accommodations and adaptations, farmer's markets, magical lands, foreign dimensions, other phantasmagoric settings, unusual magical systems, pointy hats, robes, wands or staves, cauldrons, herbs, crystals, potions, magical artifacts, quests, time periods other than medieval, governments other than monarchy, dragons, unicorns, enchantments, reversals, contradictions, conundrums, puzzling discoveries, sudden surprises, inventions that change everything, time travel, travel mishaps, the buck stops here, trial and error, polarity, weird food, secret ingredients, supplements that turn out to be metagenic, intercultural entanglements, asking for help and getting it, enemies to friends/lovers, interdimensional travel, lab conditions are not field conditions, superpower manifestation, the end of where your framework actually applies, ethics, innovation, problems that can't be solved by hitting, teamwork, found family, complementary strengths and weaknesses, personal growth, and poetic forms in particular.
Among my more relevant series for the main theme:
The Adventures of Aldornia and Zenobia is about live happy lesbians in a quirky fantasy world.
Clay of Life is Jewish fantasy about a blacksmith and a golem.
A Conflagration of Dragons has unforseen disasters and cultural upheavals.
Gloryroad Crossing is the weird village where adventurers go to restock.
Kande's Quest is sword & soul with caucasian-inspired demons.
Monster House is suburban fantasy with a diverse household, where the line between truth and fantasy isn't always clear.
Not Quite Kansas has a helpful demon.
The Ocracies features all the political systems other than monarchy.
One God's Story of Mid-Life Crisis follows Shaeth as he works on becoming the God of Drunks.
Path of the Paladins is low fantasy about paladins trying to restore a world gone to ruins.
P.I.E. is urban fantasy about paranormal investigations.
Polychrome Heroics has primarily superpowers, but magic is described as "sorcery" there. Antimatter & Stalwart Stan are a cross-cape couple, and Antimatter essentially does science-based magic. Aubrey the Alabaster is another sorcerer. Eric the Elven King has interdimensional refugees.
Practical Magics is low fantasy with a prosaic focus.
Quixotic Ideas is contemporary fantasy where magic integrates with modern life in positive ways.
The Ursulan Cycle is genderbent King Arthur.
Yellow Unicorns is a quirky fantasy setting where the only yellow things people can see are the unicorns.
Or you can ask for something new.
Boost the signal to reveal a verse in any open linkback poem.
If you're interested, mark the date on your calendar, and please hold actual prompts until the "Poetry Fishbowl Open" post next week. (If you're not available that day, or you live in a time zone that makes it hard to reach me, you can leave advance prompts. I am now.) Meanwhile, if you want to help with promotion, please feel free to link back here or repost this on your blog.
( New to the fishbowl? Read all about it! )
Among my more relevant series for the main theme:
The Adventures of Aldornia and Zenobia is about live happy lesbians in a quirky fantasy world.
Clay of Life is Jewish fantasy about a blacksmith and a golem.
A Conflagration of Dragons has unforseen disasters and cultural upheavals.
Gloryroad Crossing is the weird village where adventurers go to restock.
Kande's Quest is sword & soul with caucasian-inspired demons.
Monster House is suburban fantasy with a diverse household, where the line between truth and fantasy isn't always clear.
Not Quite Kansas has a helpful demon.
The Ocracies features all the political systems other than monarchy.
One God's Story of Mid-Life Crisis follows Shaeth as he works on becoming the God of Drunks.
Path of the Paladins is low fantasy about paladins trying to restore a world gone to ruins.
P.I.E. is urban fantasy about paranormal investigations.
Polychrome Heroics has primarily superpowers, but magic is described as "sorcery" there. Antimatter & Stalwart Stan are a cross-cape couple, and Antimatter essentially does science-based magic. Aubrey the Alabaster is another sorcerer. Eric the Elven King has interdimensional refugees.
Practical Magics is low fantasy with a prosaic focus.
Quixotic Ideas is contemporary fantasy where magic integrates with modern life in positive ways.
The Ursulan Cycle is genderbent King Arthur.
Yellow Unicorns is a quirky fantasy setting where the only yellow things people can see are the unicorns.
Or you can ask for something new.
Boost the signal to reveal a verse in any open linkback poem.
If you're interested, mark the date on your calendar, and please hold actual prompts until the "Poetry Fishbowl Open" post next week. (If you're not available that day, or you live in a time zone that makes it hard to reach me, you can leave advance prompts. I am now.) Meanwhile, if you want to help with promotion, please feel free to link back here or repost this on your blog.
( New to the fishbowl? Read all about it! )
Bingo
Sep. 30th, 2025 10:07 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
I have made bingo down the O column of my 9-1-25 card for the Piracy Fest Bingo.
O1 (leak) "Mightier Than" (Princess: The Hopeful)
O2 (lookout) "Simple and to the Point" (An Army of One)
O3 (affiliate) "Bring Unique Qualities" (Daughters of the Apocalypse)
O4 (request) "The Only Thing That You Absolutely Have to Know" (Polychrome Heroics)
O5 (patch) "A Reader, an Interpreter, and a Creator) (Polychrome Heroics: Rutledge)
B4 (parrot) "For Those Who Work at It" (Polychrome Heroics: Dr. Infanta)
O1 (leak) "Mightier Than" (Princess: The Hopeful)
O2 (lookout) "Simple and to the Point" (An Army of One)
O3 (affiliate) "Bring Unique Qualities" (Daughters of the Apocalypse)
O4 (request) "The Only Thing That You Absolutely Have to Know" (Polychrome Heroics)
O5 (patch) "A Reader, an Interpreter, and a Creator) (Polychrome Heroics: Rutledge)
B4 (parrot) "For Those Who Work at It" (Polychrome Heroics: Dr. Infanta)
Recipe: "Pigeon Peas Stew"
Sep. 30th, 2025 08:59 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
We made this tonight. It's quite tasty. :D We have plenty of pigeon peas left, so I can try other recipes too.
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Affordable Housing
Sep. 30th, 2025 06:51 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Long commutes and small homes are wrecking sleep
Your commute and home size could be quietly stealing your sleep.
Tokyo residents face a trade-off between home size and commute time when it comes to sleep health. A new study shows longer commutes increase both insomnia and daytime sleepiness, while smaller housing also raises insomnia risk. Even with average-sized homes, commuting more than 52 minutes pushed people into the insomnia range. Researchers say smarter housing planning could improve both sleep and quality of life.
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Your commute and home size could be quietly stealing your sleep.
Tokyo residents face a trade-off between home size and commute time when it comes to sleep health. A new study shows longer commutes increase both insomnia and daytime sleepiness, while smaller housing also raises insomnia risk. Even with average-sized homes, commuting more than 52 minutes pushed people into the insomnia range. Researchers say smarter housing planning could improve both sleep and quality of life.
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Birdfeeding
Sep. 30th, 2025 01:55 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Today is mostly sunny and sweltering. It's 85°F here. The migration is heavily impacted -- we drove past the lake yesterday and there was no sign of waterbirds, whereas normally this time of year there would ducks, pelicans, etc. in fairly large flocks.
I fed the birds. I've seen a few sparrows and house finches.
EDIT 9/30/25 -- I put out water for the birds.
EDIT 9/30/25 -- I did a bit of work around the patio.
EDIT 9/30/25 -- I did more work around the patio.
I watered the telephone pole garden, savanna seedlings, patio plants, new picnic table, and old picnic table.
Cicadas and crickets are singing.
As it is getting dark, I am done for the night.
I fed the birds. I've seen a few sparrows and house finches.
EDIT 9/30/25 -- I put out water for the birds.
EDIT 9/30/25 -- I did a bit of work around the patio.
EDIT 9/30/25 -- I did more work around the patio.
I watered the telephone pole garden, savanna seedlings, patio plants, new picnic table, and old picnic table.
Cicadas and crickets are singing.
As it is getting dark, I am done for the night.
Food
Sep. 29th, 2025 03:26 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Junk food can scramble memory in just 4 days
Scientists discovered that high-fat junk food disrupts memory circuits in the brain almost immediately. Within just four days, neurons in the hippocampus became overactive, impairing memory. Restoring glucose calmed the neurons, showing that interventions like fasting or dietary shifts can restore brain health. This could help prevent obesity-related dementia and Alzheimer’s.
Of more immediate application: if you need to study for anything, don't eat junk food while doing so. Eat brain food.
Scientists discovered that high-fat junk food disrupts memory circuits in the brain almost immediately. Within just four days, neurons in the hippocampus became overactive, impairing memory. Restoring glucose calmed the neurons, showing that interventions like fasting or dietary shifts can restore brain health. This could help prevent obesity-related dementia and Alzheimer’s.
Of more immediate application: if you need to study for anything, don't eat junk food while doing so. Eat brain food.
Birdfeeding
Sep. 29th, 2025 03:01 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Today is mostly sunny and sweltering. In late September. Fuck climate change. >_<
I fed the birds. I've seen a few sparrows and house finches.
I put out water for the birds.
EDIT 9/29/25 -- I watered the telephone pole garden and some savanna seedlings.
I saw a huge corn devil in the field across from us that was harvested recently. This wasn't the usual 10-15 foot tall kind. This was a wide, strong spiral of air that threw corn leaves hundreds of feet into the sky. Impressive.
EDIT 9/29/25 -- I watered the irises, old picnic table, and new picnic table.
Cicadas and crickets are singing.
As it is now dark, I am done for the night.
I fed the birds. I've seen a few sparrows and house finches.
I put out water for the birds.
EDIT 9/29/25 -- I watered the telephone pole garden and some savanna seedlings.
I saw a huge corn devil in the field across from us that was harvested recently. This wasn't the usual 10-15 foot tall kind. This was a wide, strong spiral of air that threw corn leaves hundreds of feet into the sky. Impressive.
EDIT 9/29/25 -- I watered the irises, old picnic table, and new picnic table.
Cicadas and crickets are singing.
As it is now dark, I am done for the night.
Monday Update 9-29-25
Sep. 29th, 2025 03:46 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
These are some posts from the later part of last week in case you missed them:
Today's Cooking
Philosophical Questions: Peace
Poem
Sustainability
Birdfeeding
Today's Adventures
Sustainability
Birdfeeding
Philosophical Questions: Effects
Today's Adventures
Pigeon Pea Recipes
Follow Friday 9-26-25: Jane Austen
Holiday Activities
Birdfeeding
Hobbies: Crochet
Artificial Intelligence
Birdfeeding
Hard Things
Let's Boycott Mississippi has 60 comments. Affordable Housing has 50 comments. Robotics has 72 comments.
"An Inkling of Things to Come" belongs to Polychrome: Shiv and needs $200 to be complete. Shiv attends the first session of his Worldbuilding class.
The weather is sweltering again. >_< Seen at the birdfeeders this week: a mixed flock of sparrows and house finches and a fox squirrel. I heard a blue jay screaming but didn't see it. Currently blooming: dandelions, marigolds, petunias, red salvia, verbena, lantana, sweet alyssum, zinnias, snapdragons, blue lobelia, perennial pinks, oxalis, moss rose, firecracker plant, tomatoes, tomatillos, yellow squash, zucchini, morning glory, chicory, Queen Anne's lace, sunflowers, cup plant, firewheel, cypress vine, sunchokes, sedum. Tomatoes, ball carrots, cucumbers, and groundcherries are ripe. Fields are about half harvested.
Today's Cooking
Philosophical Questions: Peace
Poem
Sustainability
Birdfeeding
Today's Adventures
Sustainability
Birdfeeding
Philosophical Questions: Effects
Today's Adventures
Pigeon Pea Recipes
Follow Friday 9-26-25: Jane Austen
Holiday Activities
Birdfeeding
Hobbies: Crochet
Artificial Intelligence
Birdfeeding
Hard Things
Let's Boycott Mississippi has 60 comments. Affordable Housing has 50 comments. Robotics has 72 comments.
"An Inkling of Things to Come" belongs to Polychrome: Shiv and needs $200 to be complete. Shiv attends the first session of his Worldbuilding class.
The weather is sweltering again. >_< Seen at the birdfeeders this week: a mixed flock of sparrows and house finches and a fox squirrel. I heard a blue jay screaming but didn't see it. Currently blooming: dandelions, marigolds, petunias, red salvia, verbena, lantana, sweet alyssum, zinnias, snapdragons, blue lobelia, perennial pinks, oxalis, moss rose, firecracker plant, tomatoes, tomatillos, yellow squash, zucchini, morning glory, chicory, Queen Anne's lace, sunflowers, cup plant, firewheel, cypress vine, sunchokes, sedum. Tomatoes, ball carrots, cucumbers, and groundcherries are ripe. Fields are about half harvested.
Girl Genius for Monday, September 29, 2025
Sep. 29th, 2025 04:00 am![[syndicated profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/feed.png)
The Girl Genius comic for Monday, September 29, 2025 has been posted.
Today's Cooking
Sep. 28th, 2025 11:51 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
We made two things today!
My partner Doug riffed on a recipe using the sourdough bread we had that wasn't optimum for grilled cheese sandwiches. So he blended up eggs, cheese, and stuff to pour over slices of bread and broil. It was amazingly good. :D
I cobbled up a fruit crisp in muffin tins because I had a cooking apple, some leftover strawberries, and for the crumble topping I added a broken-up gingersnap to the usual ingredients. It turned out quite tasty. \o/
I like that we know enough about cooking to throw together something from what we have available, and it works.
My partner Doug riffed on a recipe using the sourdough bread we had that wasn't optimum for grilled cheese sandwiches. So he blended up eggs, cheese, and stuff to pour over slices of bread and broil. It was amazingly good. :D
I cobbled up a fruit crisp in muffin tins because I had a cooking apple, some leftover strawberries, and for the crumble topping I added a broken-up gingersnap to the usual ingredients. It turned out quite tasty. \o/
I like that we know enough about cooking to throw together something from what we have available, and it works.